Your Challenge: For the next thirty days, don't say anything negative to or about your husband. Also, say something positive to and about your husband each day.
The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life." (Prov 31:11-12)
You can't say anything negative about your husband . . . to your husband . . . and to someone else, about your husband!
Say something that you admire or appreciate about your husband . . . to your husband . . . and to someone else, about your husband!
To help you get started, have you ever thanked your husband for choosing you above all other women? He found you attractive as a person, and appreciated you. Though many circumstances in your marriage may have changed, let your husband know that you are glad God led you together, and that you want to be a blessing to him for the rest of your marriage. Let him know that he can trust you to be in his corner.
One of the best opportunities to express your gratitude is first thing in the morning. How do you greet your husband each morning? Is he confident in your love? Give him a "wake up call" that he'll never forget - a big "I love you" and an "I'm so glad I'm your wife!"
Share Your Encouragement with Others!
While you are considering how your speech can reflect the grace of the Lord in your husband's life, don't forget that your words can also encourage others. When you share what God is doing in your life through this "30-Day Husband Encouragement Challenge", others will be blessed.